Research has indicated that the communication styles of women and men differ significantly. This difference will help a couple manage their finances more effectively and achieve goals better. Unfortunately, these advantages aren't experienced by all women and men. The compatibility may not arise in daily interactions since both are more absorbed by their differences and both don't experience the advantages of cooperation.
Men are more prone to share their needs, interests, and wants and then wait till others do the same things. Women, then, are inclined to ask or end their sentences with a question. Women will quietly give answers without expressing what they just want.
Men talk and interrupt much more whereas women like to react on something said by others and frequently don't come back to the subject at hand after being interrupted. On the other hand girls don't talk about money in a competitive manner. They even attempt to avoid the subject of money in their conversations.
Let's have a closer look at the different personalities of men and women.
Men prefer to discuss impersonal topics and rarely admit having financial problems and need help to solve them. They're inclined to emphasize the joys of freedom from duties and make decisions without consulting their partner. Men like to go right to the point of the problem or do an important issue to reach their targets. As an example, men go to the bathroom to deliver something. On the other hand, women use the toilet to powder their noses, gossip and hang about. Obviously women think about the toilet for a multi functional room.
When conveying, guys like to begin talking about a problem at hand and focus on it whereas women do the opposite. This results from the fact that men have a mono-tracking brain causing them to be able to focus on one topic of conversation. When the conversation touches many other topics and drags on, they will stop absorbing relevant details. Women are much superior to engage in conversations covering many topics because they have multi-tracking brains.
How to Communicate with Guys This won't impress them and they will think badly about their counterparts. So try talk to the point, examine a problem thoroughly, avoid side monitoring, use logic when expressing an opinion, avoid talking about others, use simple words and a firm voice, appreciate them (excite their self), avoid belittling them with negative judgments, and avoid debates when at all possible. Use exact numbers when talking to guys. By using a more rational style emphasizing numbers and figures, men will be able to understand better. So when giving directions, avoid vague markings but provide precise signs they can use to find their way.
Character of Women
There are enormous differences between the characters of men and women. Women like to talk about themselves, their fiscal problems, and don't hesitate to ask for assistance if needed. They do not consider that to be a burden. Thanks to their multi-tracking brain, girls can discuss different topics in a fast way which is an awesome thing. Women like talk about other men and women. They can speak about others for hours with their female friends. The easily express their feelings and opinions. They value friendship a great deal and will ask for help and guidance from their friends. They are less independent in decision making and need the help of men in this regard.
Women like to hear nice words that sound like music in their ears. They discuss sensitive issues indirectly and use imaginary examples to talk about a problem. However, they are great listeners and it's difficult to accuse them of lying. For this reason, men prefer to lie through the phone which is significantly safer!
Women with all their beauty are a lot more sensitive than men and also have many other superior traits which all require a gentle approach. When we make a mistake it's going to be difficult to repair it. When communicating with women attempt to avoid being to the point, talk about social things and daily life to draw their attention, use gentle and civilized words, utilize social and mental words, use moderate tone of voice, and use decent and concentrated body language. It's possible to highlight some topics, but avoid statistics, numbers and other precise data. Enjoy them by praising all women generally. Of course compliment their clothes and accessories at the start of conversation. Women like to form friendships rather than stiff and cold business relationships.
They prefer to cultivate long-term relationships and unlike guys, they do not like to look at relationships using a cost-benefit approach. When giving instructions do it like this: "The address you are searching for is nor far from here. You just need to pass Animal Control on your left and the building you are looking for is just in front of you." There are no exact numbers in this explanation and this is going to be far better understood by women than men.